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MY younger lover wants us to go public with our secret relationship but I’m not sure I’m ready — or that I will ever be. I’m ...

THERE’S nothing I love more than snuggling into bed with my partner, but unfortunately, he doesn’t feel the same way.

A WOMAN I slept with has had a baby, and I think it might be mine. However, she’s saying her boyfriend is the father, and she ...

What should I do? Have an affair to scratch the itch or end things with my boyfriend and hope that my one-night lover lives up to all my expectations? DEAR DEIDRE: MY first crush made a pass at me and ...

She thought her friend saved her from a lying, cheating boyfriend—until the truth surfaced and she realised the real betrayal ...

I’m a woman in my 30s and I recently stayed at my boyfriend’s apartment and I’m feeling conflicted. Some context: He is in a ...

Nothing had prepared me for unrequited love, but in books and music I found a way through. A tattoo, a car and a dog also ...

The mom-to-be said she was left feeling “overwhelmed and hopeless” after her boyfriend insisted that all cleaning should fall ...

A Rhode Island mom and her boyfriend were fatally shot after her daughter’s ex demanded sex at gunpoint. Loved ones say ...

We asked members of the BuzzFeed Community who have ever been ghosted by a long-term partner to share their stories. Here's ...

The Duke and Duchess of Edinburgh's daughter Lady Louise Windsor has been pictured in military uniform during the St Andrews ...