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Dr. John Gottman calls bids for connection the small, everyday moments that build or break a relationship. A shared laugh, a gentle touch, even a simple question or pointing out a bird. These are all ways we seek connection with our partners. The key? How we respond. Turning toward bids strengthens trust and intimacy, while turning away can create distance over time. Want to learn how to recognize and respond to bids for connection? Watch the full video on our youtube channel. https://youtu.be/o
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Dr. John Gottman calls bids for connection the small, everyday moments that build or break a relationship. A shared laugh, a gentle touch, even a simple question or pointing out a bird. These are all ways we seek connection with our partners. The key? How we respond. Turning toward bids strengthens trust and intimacy, while turning away can create distance over time. Want to learn how to recognize and respond to bids for connection? Watch the full video on our youtube channel. https://youtu.be/o
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Dr. John Gottman describes trust as being built in “sliding door” moments, those everyday decisions where you choose to turn toward your partner or pull away. In a healthy, supportive relationship, partners choose each other every day, fostering love and intentionally nurturing their connection. This foundation is a key pillar of The Gottman Institute’s Sound Relationship House. What does commitment mean to you? ⁠ https://www.gottman.com/blog/what-does-trust-and-commitment-look-like-in-a-relatio
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Dr. John Gottman describes trust as being built in “sliding door” moments, those everyday decisions where you choose to turn toward your partner or pull away. In a healthy, supportive relationship, partners choose each other every day, fostering love and intentionally nurturing their connection. This foundation is a key pillar of The Gottman Institute’s Sound Relationship House. What does commitment mean to you? ⁠ https://www.gottman.com/blog/what-does-trust-and-commitment-look-like-in-a-relatio
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Nonverbal bids for connection can work, but as Dr. John Gottman notes, only “as long as you are both clear about what message you’re sending or receiving.” Ask yourself: Do you know your partner's go-to move? Is it a smile from across the table? Do they cuddle close at bedtime? How about you? Are you sure your partner knows what you’re asking for? | The Gottman Institute
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Nonverbal bids for connection can work, but as Dr. John Gottman notes, only “as long as you are both clear about what message you’re sending or receiving.” Ask yourself: Do you know your partner's go-to move? Is it a smile from across the table? Do they cuddle close at bedtime? How about you? Are you sure your partner knows what you’re asking for? | The Gottman Institute
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In over 40 years of research with over 3,000 couples, Dr. John Gottman identified what he called "the 4 Horsemen of the Apocalypse," the 4 leading causes of separation and divorce. The first of these is Criticism. The antidote to Criticism is what we call "Gentle Startup." | Happy Couples Healthy Communities
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In over 40 years of research with over 3,000 couples, Dr. John Gottman identified what he called "the 4 Horsemen of the Apocalypse," the 4 leading causes of separation and divorce. The first of these is Criticism. The antidote to Criticism is what we call "Gentle Startup." | Happy Couples Healthy Communities
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The Gottman Institute on Instagram: "In this clip, Dr. John and Dr. Julie Gottman show two very different “openers” to a frustrating moment: one kicks off with a harsh jab (👎), the other with a softened startup (👏). What’s a softened startup? It’s swapping “You always…” for “I feel…” Turning down the heat and turning up the heart. Sure, you can be mad... but you don’t need criticism or contempt to say so."
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