Some people with dementia lose the ability to recognize their own reflection. This can lead to fear, anxiety, and even resistance with important daily activities like dressing, bathing, or showering. Because of visual-spatial changes in the brain, the person with dementia may not understand what they’re seeing. They may also believe they are much younger than they are, so the older person in the mirror can’t possibly be them. To them, it might feel like someone else is intruding, which can make
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Let’s talk about something real: getting your person with dementia to shower. If you’ve ever been met with “No,” “Don’t touch me,” or flat-out refusal, you’re not alone. Showering can feel scary, disorienting, and overwhelming for someone with dementia. Here’s one hack that has helped so many families: Put on a bathing suit and get in with them. Yessss—whether you’re a spouse, a daughter, or another trusted female caregiver, this trick can shift the whole experience from distress to comfort. Bec
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“‘I don’t need a shower today!’ — sound familiar? What no one is telling you about dementia is that refusals like these are usually rooted in fear or discomfort, not defiance. Common reasons they may be avoiding showering are: – Cold room or water – Embarrassment being naked – Dislike of water in the face – Not understanding what’s going on Here’s how to help: – Warm the room – Use a cozy robe – Play familiar music – Say ‘spa time’ – Go slow and explain each step A few small shifts can make all
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Yesterday’s video about showering and dementia struck a chord with so many of you, and I completely understand why — it’s one of the most common (and stressful) challenges caregivers face. 💬There was a TON of interest, so I wanted to share a little sneak peek into The Dementia Shower Guide, my in-depth course that walks you through exactly what to do when someone with dementia won’t shower — and why they might be refusing in the first place.💡 It covers:• 11 reasons someone might resist showeri
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Getting someone with dementia to shower isn’t about forcing them — it’s about understanding their reason for saying no and working with it. Maybe they insist they already showered, maybe they’re afraid of falling, or maybe they just don’t see the point. Instead of arguing, meet their concern with empathy and a creative solution. Safety equipment, comfort items, or even a small motivation can make all the difference. I created a full course with over 4 hours of content to help you bathe someone w
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Does your person refuse to bathe, or they say, "I already showered"? You're not alone! That's why I brought on the world-renown expert in the dementia caregiver community, Teepa Snow to help show you exactly what to say and do. So you don't have to feel powerless with this experience ever again. We did this interview over a year ago on Instagram and it's been one of my most popular interviews ever, so I thought it was time to post the replay here. Hope it helps! Let me know what you think. | Dem
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